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How Self Help Can Get You a More Favorable Divorce Ruling or Settlement

By Orlando Divorce Attorney Eduardo J. Mejias

Practicing Exclusively Family Law Since 2011

The Four Client Self-Help Practices to Get a More Favorable Settlement or Ruling in Your Divorce Case

Family law, cases are not won or lost. Instead the mediation settlement or the family court rulings are more or less favorable to one side or the other. The following four practices are designed to help you make the mediation or family court outcomes more favorable to you, in an honest manner and within the context of what the law prescribes. For example, there are many legitimate arguments for giving a divorcing spouse more custody time with his or her children than 30%. But failing to follow the four best self-help practices below could endanger getting that desired higher custody time.

  1. Communicate With Your Family Law Attorney

    Family law, more so than other areas of law, requires communication and cooperation between the attorney and the client. Unlike other types of lawyers, family law attorneys must react to ongoing events and fluid situations. A client facing a DUI charge repeatedly discusses the same event to his attorney: the night he enjoyed a couple of drinks at the local watering hole and was pulled over while driving home.

    Conversely, a client of a divorce attorney deals with events during the course of the marriage, during the divorce proceedings, as well as future situations that may arise well after the divorce (e.g., the sale of the marital home or the date that child support obligation terminates for one of the parents). The breadth of facts that a the client needs to communicate to the family law attorney demands an open, honest, and harmonious attorney-client relationship. The family law client should take the next three steps to be sure of being on the “on the same page” with the attorney:

  2. Present All Court Documents At The Initial Consultation

    This may seem obvious to some, but too many potential family law clients neglect to do this when consulting with their lawyers. In a pending divorce or other family law issues, it is the client’s responsibility to obtain all of the documents that have been filed with the court. This is because the client has a more direct access to the documents, thus is in a better position to find them.

    Furthermore, we cannot provide precise legal advice until we have reviewed what has been filed in your case. Can you imagine a doctor making a diagnosis without first examining the patient? If you do not have all of the pleadings and motions in your case, you can have the clerk of the court in your county print copies for you. These copies usually only cost a dollar per page.

    However, once you hire your attorney, you need not worry about document retrieval any more. All of the documents filed with the court, as well as orders issues from the court, are sent to your attorney. And if you do not yet have a case pending at the time of the initial consultation, you obviously do not have to concern yourself with fetching court documents. However, you still need to pay attention to the two items below.

  3. Provide Your Attorney With Basic Information And Your Long-Term Objectives.

    Prospective clients of AAA Family Law are given a basic intake sheet to fill out before beginning their consultation. Much like what medical patients are given at their first appointment with their doctor, these intake sheets provide us with the client’s contact and biographical information. If your case is pending, it is also important that you list the case number (e.g., 2015-DR-000123), and case styling (e.g., Smith v. Smith) on the intake sheet.

    The intake sheet helps us review your online docket of the case (unless it is a family law case in Seminole County, which does not allow online access for these cases). Keep in mind though, that even the counties that do provide online access do not reveal the actual content of the filings. This is why it is crucial for the potential client to bring these to the initial consultation.

    More importantly, let us know what you want to accomplish in your case! “I want to bury my spouse” is not a legitimate goal. These are examples of appropriate objectives: (1) if you are going through a divorce with children, we want to know what type of child custody time-sharing schedule with your spouse you envision, (2) in divorces involving valuable assets, you should tell us which assets are vital to you, and which ones are not as important and (3) if you believe you deserve alimony, you should explain why and what amount you hope to get. Without knowing where you want to take your case, we cannot create a plan to achieve your objectives.

  4. Stick to the Plan

    How quickly do you think you will arrive at your intended destination if you keep making unnecessary side trips? To avoid side trips, I spend a great deal of time keeping my current clients focused on the big picture. I often advise them not to allow a one-time inconsequential event (e.g., “look at what he texted me!”) to distract them from what we’re trying to accomplish. You hire a family law attorney for his or her knowledge, insight, and experience. Trust your lawyer to be able to distinguish between what is truly important, and what is merely an unpleasant distraction.

Get a More Favorable Mediation Settlement or Family Court Ruling

If you follow these four simple self-help suggestions, you will increase your chances of securing a more favorable mediation settlement or a more favorable ruling from the family court judge.

Contact AAA Family Law

If you are involved in a situation requiring a family lawyer, I encourage your to call AAA Family Law at (407) 260-6001 in Altamonte Springs for an initial family law consultation. We cover cases in the courtrooms of these jurisdictions of the Orlando metro area: Orange, Seminole, Volusia, Lake and Oceola counties.

At the initial consultation I will (1) listen to your description of the divorce situation that you find yourself in and the objectives you want me to try to accomplish, (2) inform you of the plan of legal actions to try to achieve your objectives and (3) quote you the amount of the attorney retainer fees. In almost every case the fee is a fixed amount. Therefore, you will know the total cost of your case in advance of signing a contract or paying.

Our attorney retainer fees for contested divorces up to mediation are between $2,000 and $3,000 depending on its their level of complexity. An additional retainer amount is set before the trial if the divorce settlement is not achieved during mediation. For an uncontested divorce the fees range from $1,200 to $1,800.

For more information on other costs and on the range of attorney retainer fees for each type of family law case, please click on Our Retainer Fee Policies.



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AAA Family Law is located in Altamonte Springs and serves clients throughout the Orlando Metro Area including, but not limited to, the following cities and unincorporated areas, by county: Orange County: Apopka, Bay Lake, Maitland, Ocoee, Orlando, Union Park, Winter Garden, and Winter Park; Seminole County: Altamonte Springs, Casselberry, Lake Mary, Longwood, Oviedo, Sanford, and Winter Springs; Volusia County: Daytona Beach, DeBary, DeLand, Deltona, and Orange City; Lake County: Clermont, Leesburg, and Mount Dora; Osceola County: Buena Ventura Lakes, Celebration, and Kissimmee; Orange, Lake, Osceola, and Polk Counties: Four Corners; Orange and Seminole Counties: Goldenrod.